Sunday, February 13, 2011


Gaya ng marami, naranasan ko rin maging single ng Valentines Day.  Ngunit hindi ito naging dahilan upang makaramdam ng lungkot, o kaya pangamba (na maging single forever)  o  kung hindi man ay mag disappear habang ang mga mag-irog ay abala sa pag-celebrate ng kanilang araw ng mga puso.

Minsan, higit na mainam ang mag-intay o kaya ay magsawalang-kibo sa halip na punan ng hilaw at bubot na pakiramdam ang bugso ng damdamin. Sino ang mag-aakala na ang mga binitawan kong salita noong isang taon - sa araw ng mga puso - ay mga bulong sa hangin. 

Na muling hahaplos sa aking pisngi matapos maging tapat sa  pangakong mag-iintay sa kanyang pagdating.

February 14, 2010

It feels great to be seen in cocktail parties, especially when you know the host, and you look up to that person because of his accomplishments in life, and because of the way he moved you through his eye-opening essays.

And it feels better knowing you have endured your impulse to seek a date on this day, knowing that its just for the occasion, and learning that the one you're looking for deserves to wait and discover your true value.

I maybe dateless, pair-less and suffering from melancholia because of my single blessedness, but I am proud to say  that my longings were conquered. I might have arrived home drunk, wasted and club-less, yet, I feel contented and victorious tonight.

Pink Polo Guy: You know, I like you. You're easy to get along with.

Mugen: Thanks!

In truth, we never got to talk. He was seducing everyone at the party, while I downed shots of alcohol while having fun with my single friends.  When it was my turn to be his boylet, (everyone he flirted had either left or had slumped at their seats) I was more than happy to ditch his advances.

Instead of biting back, I returned to cleaning the dishes until the effects of Vodka wore off.


Désolé Boy said...

Ooooh some people, eh? Let me take for an example this guy (yesterday) who tried to make me his "pantawid" for the Vanlentine, he he.
I was biting my lips when I read the first part of this post as it was...well...not exactly the same, but prolly the same thought of what a friend is telling me via phone conve just now (read: telling = scolding).
Are you sure then that someone is coming along? In the near future?
But really...your wait is more than worth it! Good for you Kuya! Happy Valentine's Day to you and your Baabaa.

Nimmy said...

JMugs loveteam! eeeeeeeeeee!

napangiti ako sa tags mo kuya. Puso at Puson. lavvet!

my-so-called-Quest said...

never trust a guy wearing a pink polo then. hehe.

so saan ang vday date? kung meron.

Kiks said...

unless the vodka is used to clean the dishes, the effects will never wear off.

come here, Mu[g]en. Volume offers free vodka on wednesdays. and you'd get hooked even not on a v-day.

Louie said...

Just like what I've told you before, one of the values I learned from you is the patience in waiting. :)

I should join Nimmy in the Baabaa fans club. :)

iurico said...

Omg! Sabi ko na siya si baabaa. Ayiiiiiiiiii.

Happy vday sa inyong dalawa.

Anonymous said...

at saan na naman ang date nyo ngayong valentines aber????

may mag-sing-irog na plano kayong i-stalk hanggang maging foursome ang date eh.


Nishiboy said...

napamura ako dun. siya pala yun. haha. happy vday sa inyong dalawa. =)

Spiral Prince said...

And the moral of the story is: it pays to wait. It's obvious that what's shared between you and Baabaa is too much to contain. Happy Valentines!

Marhk said...

Happy Valentines sa iyo at sa iyong kabiyak ng puso!! baabaa!!

laove you both!! mwahugss!!

Sean said...

master, ang sweet naman nung mga bulong sa hangin na muling humaplos sa iyong pisngi... happy v day sa inyong dalawang magsing-irog. cheers to love and happiness!

orally said...

good things come to those who wait indeed. happy valentines day to you and your baabaa

@sister iurico and sister nishigirl, mga bakla ngayon nyo lang nalaman kung sino si baabaa?

JapaneseAdobo said...

i agree! it is better to wait for the right person coz when u finally have him, its all worth the wait for sure. valentines is just a date. bawal ang bitter.. hehehhe...i'm so happy nakita ko ulit blog mo, i was a fan of yours nung di ka pa nagdedelete ng blog mo a few years back. sorry ngayun ko lang nakita... ngayun na lang din kasi ulit ako naguupdate ng blog ko eh...its good to know ure back. im really happy

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Jpy Dee said...

happy vday sa inyo ni baabaa mo. :)

Yj said...

gusto kong umiyak!