Saturday, January 26, 2008

Bottom 101

To begin with, everything starts with a mind setting.

1. When you watch porn flicks, think of yourself as the bottom. Familiarize yourself with the actor. Emphatically relate to him in his pain and his pleasure.

2. During the "confrontation proper" make sure your top fits your ideal guy. If you want him more aggressive and dominant than you, then by all means find someone who can. Being bottom and top is like a clash between who's willpower is stronger. If you acknowledge his dominance, then there's nothing wrong becoming the bot. However, once you appear more dominant over your top, might as well become his top and not his bottom instead.

3. Make sure he plugs his totoy gradually. Its normal for your hole to resist his penetration. No matter what happens. Never let his, force himself into you.

4. Kissing, touching, squeezing, jackn off would help ease the pain. The rule is: he must make you comfortable with what he is inserting.

5. When his thing is halfway plunged inside you, let him stay in that position. If he's the romantic type, he should fondle and make you more at ease as he penetrates you. If it hurts badly, tell him to pull his thing out immediately. When the pain becomes too unbearable, spank your butt until the pain subsides. It diverts the pain from your anus to your butt-cheeks.

6. Lubricant helps a lot. Mister Frenzy ensures protection.

7. When he is finally inside you, let him pause a bit... gently allow him to thrust his thing very slowly until your hole gets adjusted to his pole. When the pleasure exceeds the pain you are feeling, give him the signal to plow you as fast and deep as you or he wants.

8. Of course before the pleasure, expect the pain first. It will hurt like hell. Some even claimed that they felt being torn in half when their partner is banging them. When I am the bottom, I draw all the pleasure from the pain I receive.

9. Never cum first. Bottoms consider it a suicidal act, unless you're a powerbot and you're a masochist. Let your top achieve his orgasm before you do. It would be best if you cum at the same time.

10. Bleeding is normal. Increase your vitamin c dosage for a week after getting impaled.

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