Friday, November 13, 2009

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Isang kuwentuhan sa pagitan ng dalawang encanto ilang linggo na ang nakaraan

The Fox says:

was asking some info about him
i asked him kung may mga tropa din siyang discreet na kagaya niya
sabi naman niya meron daw..
5 sila..

The Half-Baked Kid says:

uh huh
tapos?

The Fox says:

puro mga married guys
then.. i asked him kung how frequent na nagkakasama sila..
di daw madalas..
pero pag nagkikita daw sila.. in 2 or 3 lang..

The Half-Baked Kid says:

uh huh

The Fox says:

tapos asked him kung how they know each other..
wala lang daw basta pag nagkikita kita daw sila..
usually sex muna then inom later
mga ganun

bigla akong napaisip





The Fox says:

then.. i continued asking him some info
real name niya.. michael
mike kasi tawag ko sa kanya
then.. about his family..
and so on and so fort...
then all of a sudden.. bigla niyang sinabi..

"masyado kang matanong"

The Half-Baked Kid says:

tapos?

The Fox says:

akin lang.. that's how i want to get to know the person..
kinikilala kong mabuti siyempre
medyo napahiya ako..

Hanggang ngayon, iniisip ko pa rin kung ano ang pakiramdam na magkaroon ng kaisa-isang grupo na PLU na ang turingan niyo sa isa't isa ay pawang mga parausan lang.

Siguro ang magiging tingin mo rin sa lahat ng kagaya mo ay pawang ka-trip lang.


It must be a very sad life.





21 comments:

gillboard said...

meron palang ganung magkakaibigan...

oo nga, feeling ko ang lungkot nun...

rudeboy said...

Why would it be necessarily sad?

This particular fubu group seems to be made up of married men who occasionally like to fool around with other men.

SLP: Sex lang, pare.

No messy emotional entanglements. No drama. No paranoia that the missus might discover that her hubby's in love with kumpare.

It serves its purpose. It is what it is - a brief interlude,a release, a need fulfilled. After which they go back to their double life.

That, to me, is the sad part. But we can't all be out.

And men will always be men.

Yj said...

ay cruel intentions

echoz ahahahahaha

pero para naman walang pinagkaiba sa mga fubu na isa-isa lang... kung sex lang talaga pa-uusapan....

parang lang.... hihihihi

Galen said...

Rudeboy: I guess its the idealist part of me speaking.

I separate friends from trippings. Even before. The former I tend to open myself up, including my "straight" life and my family. The latter, I tend to disengage after I fulfill my need.

Is it just me, or I view random hook ups/no strings attached sex as a very hollow affair?

Yj: Sinubukan ko magkaroon ng FUBU. Kapitbahay ko pa. Nung huli hindi ko rin kinaya. Kahit press release ko eh may partner ako, nagparamdam pa rin ako ng konting concern dun sa tao.

Actually related tong entry na to sa blog ni Wandering Commuter tsaka... Boying Opaw.

Gillboard: Yup. Yung iba nakakaget-over sa pakikipag-niig sa isa't isa. Yung iba, kusa na lang nagdri-drift apart.

rudeboy said...

"Is it just me, or I view random hook ups/no strings attached sex as a very hollow affair?"

They are hollow, dear Galen. Which is not necessarily a bad thing, because that is the essence of a random hook-up. Wham. Bam. Thank you, Sam. That is all it is, and all it should be. Its meaning is the anonymity, the shallowness, the impermanence of two or more horny individuals locked in temporary intimacy that was never meant to last beyond orgasm.

It's when we look for meaning in something that has no meaning beyond its utilitarian aspect that we set ourselves up for disappointment and sometimes, heartache.

Galen said...

Rudeboy: Erik Wanderer said the other week that when it comes to the affairs of the heart (and the crotch) I never cease from over analyzing things.

Everyone said that I should give up the search for meanings and take things as they are (I'm referring to sex)

Honestly. I don't know what to say. :|

anteros' dominion said...

ang libog at pagibig ay parehong magkatulad at (sa kasamaang palad ay) magkaiba

parehong nararamdaman ang mga ito

yun nga lang, ang libog ay nararamdaman bunsod ng kakaibang likaw ng anumang nasa pagitan ng hita

samantalang ang pagibig ay nararamdaman ng puso dahil sa emosyong dinudulot nito

sa kasamaang palad pareho rin ang dalawang ito--hindi idinadaan sa masinsing pagiisip (dahil iyon ay trabaho na ng utak na kalimitan naman ay binabalewala sa mga ganitong usapin)

red the mod said...

Rudeboy has encapsulated my sentiments exactly. But do not digress, the life of a romantic is way more satisfying than the promise of a temporal release. Of course, it is not easy. And often you have to deal with people whose ulterior motives betray your trust and emotion. But it is the better choice.

You know my stance on this. I would rather have 5 minutes of a sincere hug (or holding my hand), than a whole night of senseless romping.

True, we have physiological needs, and being a man becomes all the more primal when it comes to that issue. Yet, when you do it with the one whose heart beats in congruence with your own it transcends the sharing of bodily fluids, to that place where spirits connect.

john stanley said...

i agree with rudeboy. it's just sex and the more, the merrier.

each of us has our own definition of the word "tropa". perhaps, for fox's friend, a "tropa" is someone he plays around with. i, of course, wouldn't mind that. but should i engage into such activities, definitely, lines will be drawn.

Galen said...

John: That's the thing, I've been raised to draw lines among friends and trippings. It is only now I learn that lines can be crossed. Unfortunately in many cases, I tend to abandon the one who crossed.

Sex. The more, the merrier? How?

Red The Mod: I wouldn't mind having an all night of romping so long as I'm doing it with the one I could feel.

The one I choose to play, however see it as a one time activity.

Anteros: Kaya minsan, mas masarap isipin na natatanggap mo lang yung dalawa sa iisang tao.

dabo said...

napaisip lang ako, kung sa tropang yun, may isang magkaroon ng sakit.. hala. pati mga misis nila damay.

Galen said...

Dabo: That's why its a very sad life.

Kaibigan mo pa magbibigay sayo ng sakit.

Boying Opaw said...

define friends. define trip. define sad.

or...

anteros' dominion said...

kaya minsan, mas masarap na hindi matanggap iyon at all para hindi maging kumplikado ang buhay

amf

Galen said...

Anteros: Related ang iyong tanong sa aking bagong eksperimento!

Boying Opaw: Or... ?

xtian1978ii said...

nalala ko tuloy ang kwentuhan namin ng isang katrip sa chelu:

siya: ok lang ba makipagsex sayo

me: ok

siya: ganun lang?

me: sex lang naman dba

siya: tara

ayun nainlab siya sa akin, sorry na lang siya. pero noong ako ay natuto na mainlab parang nagbago ang lahat. parang sex ay hinid na lang basta basta sex at maiibigay kahit kanino pero ngayong free na ako let's see

Galen said...

Xtian: Hahaha. Pasaload. Ayus yun ah.

wanderingcommuter said...

utilitarian si rudeboy, romanticisist si galen. malamang di kaya magtatagpo. hahaha!

being a utilitarian myself, i agree, mostly with what rudeboy said. but never believe with the line: men will always be men. for me, its a subtle way of stereotyping people and at the same time justifying or excusing actions.

would it be the same as when a gay man harrass a straight guy officemate? will the same line applies, gays will be gays? personally, i dont think so.

sabi nga nung isang narinig ko sa isang party, to each is own. hahaha!

Galen said...

Ewik: Thank you for telling me that. I thought I've already lost that greatest part of me.

citybuoy said...

siguro di ko lang naiintindihan. may mga ganun palang tao? haha at tama si dabo.. ang laking gulo lang nun kung may nagkasakit!

Galen said...

Citybuoy: Kanya kanyang trip yan. Pero yun nga lang, it tells much about your values. I still hold sex sacred, kahit na pagkalibog libog ko't sobrang kinky minsan.